Amanda talks about the importance of staying close when your loved one is in the last stage of life. Hear Amanda's story here.

Mum's illness hit hard. Treatments, surgeries, hope. But eventually, comfort became key. We stayed close, cherishing daily routines and laughter. When Mom was discharged from the hospital, bittersweet joy filled the air. We knew we were taking her home to die. It was a gift, the last thing we could do for her.

Quality of life became the priority, not quantity. It was important to both of us that we stayed close during this time, as we knew there wasn't much time left.

As a single mom with three young children, I was lucky my mom lived nearby. We'd pop in unannounced, the kids bringing little flowers from the garden. We aimed for normalcy, keeping daily routines as much as possible.

Laughter was important, too. Mom never lost her wicked sense of humor. Communication remained open and honest, even towards the end when she slept more. Sometimes, I'd check on her breathing like I did with a newborn, but she'd always wake with a joke.

Life doesn't stop. It's about the small things.

In the later stages, when hearing may be the last remaining sense, play music, read, hold hands, offer gentle massages. Just being there, letting them know they're not alone, makes a difference. It's important for them, you, and the precious moments you share. Don't get bogged down with chores. Focus on the time you have left. It's all that truly matters.

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